About Me

I am a Mother, Possibilitator and Cultural Midwife, birthing the next culture (Archiarchy) through how I raise my daughter and holding space for other parents and children to do the same.

I graduated from The University of Edinburgh, Scotland, with an MSc from the School of Social and Political Science in Global Environment, Politics and Society.

It was during the writing of the conclusion of my dissertation for this MSc where I had an epiphany drop in through the crown of my head like tingles washing down my body, that what I could do of service was to change myself and not something that was happening in the outside world.

“Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself.”― Rumi

I wouldn't be joining the corporate word and directly using my MSc to get a graduate job or become an activist which had been my initial intention. This is where my journey started to embark on simply continuing to practice yoga and become a yoga instructor.

Then when I made it to Golden Bay, New Zealand, I had a deeper knowing experience that this is where I wanted to stay.

I met sorceress and village weaver Janet Redmond who told me I had to participate in an Expand The Box Training (ETB). And so with my partner, compost king and soil whisperer Elliot Cleland, who I met at the Takaka Community Gardens (then), I attended my first ETB with transformation trainer queen Ana Norambuena in 2020.

I remember saying once to a relative in Egypt that I knew there was a connection between emotions and the current state of the world and I was going to find it. The ETB just delivered me the link. It gathered some key threads of my past and merged them into one training. This was big for me. And so Possibility Management became the path for me and I committed to attending further trainings and to share this work with others.

I organised ETBs, attended LABs (the training that an ETB qualifies you to attend), participated in an intensive Emotional Healing Process Team, attended Trainer Skills days, joined the Possibilitator Training calls and started training as a Possibility Coach.

Then in 2022, before my daughter was born, I removed myself from these spaces in order to hold space for my journey into Motherhood. Evelyn Irene was born under the Wainui Stars at Tui Community. After going through a lot of pain about the nuclear family model and wanting to experience something different, I started experimenting and our family moved to Pohara with 3 other adults. It was clear that children were missing from the equation and we later embarked on another experiment with another family of four at Cherry Tree Highway. Among our purposes was to see how it goes to become one family, share resources, be on each others team and share spaceholding of the children, aged 2, 2 and 4. This experiment allowed me to start opening back up to this work and offering my value as a spaceholder for coaching and EHPs, specialising in miscarriage, pregnancy, freebirth, parenting and anger work. Both families are now part of Ontree Centre.

Other spaces I feature in... Radically Alive Women (RAW) Edgecast: as an interviewee about my journey with pregnancy and freebirth and as an interviewer of two other women and their journey into motherhood at the edge of modern culture.